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What is it about Being the Real me?
There are many reasons, some valid, why people may choose to spend their lives trying to avoid discovering too much about their well hidden real self.
So if you aren't too excited about starting on this incredible journey, then this may be the right time to log out. I wouldn’t want to get you involved in something that would only end in discomfort.
Becoming more Authentic More Real
However there are others who at some point in their lives realise that their true authentic self remains somewhere lost or trapped inside, hidden by comfortable masks, held down by other people’s rules, usually from childhood.
If you are one of those people, welcome!. Provided you have the courage to break away from those old clamps and blockages, rules and restrictions then you and I can work together to take you to the place you have already dreamed of, a place where you can at last be your real me.
The old masks will remain in the background because there are times in our lives when we still need them. But so much of the time you can safely drop them and be yourself.
One restriction -
My notes can guide you, show you how, get you started, share my experiences, but I can’t actually do the climb for you.
Think of me as a conductor, waving my baton, my notes are a bit like your sheet music, but you alone can play your own instrument to produce magical changes in your life.
Interested? Then let’s get started
On this website
Step 1 -
The more aware you are of your constantly changing Emotional ages EA the more personal power you have and the less anyone else can take your power. That’s a big step forward in becoming the real you. I recommend this as the best place to start but it takes some explaining. So it’s in a separate section
Step 2. Understand more about your Vulnerability
Most of us are constantly facing vulnerability issues. The more you work with these the more real you are.
Step 3 Prepare and Protect Yourself
The next step is to look at how your real authentic self has been taken from you both now and in the past by other people who didn’t want you to enjoy the power of being the real authentic you.
One of the most common problems are people who try to Control you. Amongst the worst are the ones who “sling Control-
Did this start in your childhood? A separate section on AdverseChildhood experiences or ACEs including a survey. Click here Adverse Childhood Experiences ACE
Part 4 Growing your Real Authentic self Step by Step
The central part of this website Go to ‘Reading” There are more than 14 pages here. It’s your personal menu for you to choose which ways you like best. Click here for the list of topics
Is your true authentic self missing, lost or trapped, hidden behind masks, held down by your past or other people’s rules.
Ready now, to clear them all and be your real me again?
On this site -
Please feel free to copy any of this material for your own use.
Here are some of the main sections -
Being the real me -
Getting Real -
Real feelings Click here
Forward Thinking click here
Your Vulnerability is real -
Open Communication and naming the elephant in the room click here
Other sections (sorry, these pages still to be added)
Boundaries are essential (not yet coming soon)
Being a unique one-
Power and Control explained (coming soon)
Balancing opposites (coming soon)
Balancing Being you and what you are Doing (not the same) (coming soon)
Making Things happen makes you more real (coming soon)
How you make changes Choices and options while you stay in your power (coming soon)
Six key Life skills we all have (and keep forgetting to use) (coming soon)
Originally these were separate websites. Each one is made up of many pages. The same pages are included here but each one is a separate linked sub-
The more aware you are of Emotional Age issues the more real you become and the more truly Powerful you are.
Go to sub-
Prepare and Protect yourself from other people who try to control you by Undermining and Unbalancing you, or trying to Manipulate you.
Go to sub-
What happened in your childhood or teens that prevented you becoming the real you? What kind of ACEs, that’s Adverse Childhood Experiences did you have? What is your ACE score? Ask for a free printable pdf copy of the ACE survey.
To find out more click here www.ACE.realme1.com
Old Core Beliefs are usually negative and are a major blockage that will stop you being real. This is my oldest website going back to 1997. Ask for my Free Core Belief Balancing book
Some people seem to be obsessed not just with with controlling others, but actively putting them down, disempowering them. Preventing them from being real. Some who do this are full on narcissists,but many others just use narcissistic patterns. That can still cause lots of damage if you’re on the receiving end.
Ask for my free book on NBP (Narcissistic Behaviour Patterns)
Site search page Go to far right Navigation bar
For each free book please E-
BUT please make each book request a single e-
Skype or Zoom Because of the time differences we can only connect after we have confirmed a day and a time for our talk together. Always free for the first 20 minutes or more.
I can be contacted on
+61. 7 3261 2882 (international)
07 3261 2882 (from within Australia)
Cell phone +61.414 570 016
0414 57 00 16 (from within Australia)
The Skills, the Techniques, the Art of Being your true, Authentic Self -
|Introduction to Being the Real Me|
|Getting Real step by step|
|Define yourself - How?|
|Signs of not being Real|
|Vulnerability is Real|
|Unique One-off individual|
|Power and Control|
|Being vs Doing|
|Six Key Life Skills|
|Make things happen|
|Narcissistic Behaviour Patterns|
|Real feelings and Emotions|
|Not real feelings|
|Core Belief Balancing|